50 Dirty Things to Say to a Girl to Make Her Horny & Dirty Talk Mistakes to Avoid!

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You’ll also learn the 5 dangerous & “dumb” sex mistakes that turn him off and how to avoid them.

“I can’t wait until we’re both alone so that I can blow your mind.”

Describe how you felt, what they did, what you want to do again. These are all powerful single words that can improve dirty talk and increase the atmosphere during moments of intimacy. Once you’ve figured out your desires, you need to communicate them to your partner. “Give your partner some examples of what you’d like to say or to hear, and perhaps even at what point you’d like that to happen during sex,” says Buehler.

How to Dirty Talk: Tips and Examples for Every Comfort Level

Just go slow, but prepared to build some serious sexual heat in using them. Orgasms that rock his world and yours are just an arm’s length away when you use these nasty, naughty phrases to entice his visual and emotional appetite. Yeah, we don’t know either, but for those of us who struggle with dirty talk, the scene is a little too relatable.

• “Do not, under any circumstances, put on an elaborate fake act—your partner will sense it and question their ability to really make you feel good,” Morgann says.
• Start by just thinking about things you might say.
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• Talk about your intentions and why you want to do it.
• Or try asking them what they’d like you to do to them or describe what you’d like them to do to you.
• We also discussed some of the ground rules to make sure you get the most out of talking dirty to your man, so that you don’t accidentally freak him out when you do it and that you talk dirty with confidence.

If you’ve never talked dirty to your man before, or it’s been a long time since you were both horny teenagers, start slow, without being extremely explicit. You don’t want to freak him out, or make him think you’re having an affair because your sexual behavior suddenly changes so drastically. Don’t go all the way to the extreme with your dirty phrases. Say something like, “you are so sexy to me,” and go from there. When you’re out in public, you won’t be having sex, but it’s still a very good time to talk dirty to your man as you can build massive amounts of sexual tension with him…perfect for when you get home! You will most likely need to whisper these dirty ideas and lines in your man’s ears.

• Corner your new guy while you’re out at a party and whisper, “The bathroom downstairs is unoccupied,” with a flirty grin.
• Dirty talk might feel awkward, especially at first, but you’ll find your rhythm with time and practice.
• Learning how to talk dirty should be fun, so try to relax and go with the flow.
• You’ll probably suck at dirty talk to begin with, but no one ever got better at something without a little practice.

Carly is a master of dirty talk and gives Jess specific lines and examples that you can use tonight! Follow Carly on…TwitterFacebookInstagramThis podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. Dirty talk is a type of sexy communication intended to turn you and your partner on. There are many reasons to talk dirty, from teasing your partner to playing with power dynamics and more. Often, it can look like saying naughty things while making out, hooking up, or having sex. You don’t need to be an expert to talk dirty, but if you’re nervous, taking cues from experts can boost your confidence.

Thus, some people may be keen to explore it but come out drawing a blank when it is time to implement it. This is more likely if you have limited experience or knowledge in the practice. For many people, the thought of talking dirty during sex can be especially daunting. A forced dirty phrase will never effectively get his blood moving, and his desire amped up.

Instead, think of a way of saying it that makes you feel a little more you. You can start off by trying a few slightly dirty things and then work your way up to your preferred amount of filth. Like anything worth doing well, it usually takes a bit of practice to build your confidence up. Getting started with dirty talk via text can feel a lot less intimidating than talking dirty IRL, so practicing with some sexting is a great way to get comfortable with the idea. Having the added distance of a screen can also make it easier to speak up if your partner says something that doesn’t work for you. It’s all about the delivery.One of the secrets to great dirty talk isn’t just what you say, but how you say it.

I can only think of one thing right now, and it’s you naked in my bed. If you’re going to do it harder, whisper it in her ears before you do it. If you’re going to bite her neck or let your hands wander, breathe into her ears and tell her before you do it. If you know what your girl likes, you can better tailor what you say.